Statistically speaking 80% of New Resolutions fail or fall by the wayside by the second week in February. The odds are stacked against us out the gate.
What makes our early year goals setting and our desires for something better this year than last year so difficult to achieve? What is standing in our way from changing bad habits or simply reaching for better versions of ourselves?
Great questions! If most people had a solid answer to this that statistic would be much better.
I believe that there are a few things at play in here.
Our goals and desires are often well intended…but not clear. We know we want things to be different but we don’t know exactly how different or with deep clarity of vision how we want them to look…and more importantly how we want to feel.
Methods for goals setting don’t always come from a place that is most conducive to achievement.
We don’t always believe at our core (our deepest sub conscious level) that we deserve what we hope for or that we can achieve it, especially if we have missed the mark so many times before.
Statistically speaking most New Years resolutions are repeats of years past and we tell ourselves that THIS is going to be the year we succeed.
I propose a new approach here in this 2nd week of February. I propose that we approach our ‘New Year, New You’ from a different angle. Let’s get deep clarity on who we want to be, how we want to live, the experiences we want to have and how we want to feel. I believe if we can get connected to our core self and be in alignment with our dream we can beat the odds.
In order to beat the odds we have to address the reasons why we aren’t achieving them in the first place and so often this has to do with our current mindset. Mindset is a buzz word getting a lot of hype these days…. I get it , really, I do.
Mindset is defined as:
- the ideas and attitudes with which a person approaches a situation, especially when these are seen as being difficult to alter.
Our mindset and deepest beliefs are at the core of our internal operating system. If we can influence that…we can change our patterns therefore changing our behaviors which lead to our outcomes.
I have chosen to make my living in the heart of the personal growth and development movement for many reasons. Helping people elevate themselves to reach their fullest potential and live life by their design being the biggest among them. We are all capable of so much more than we ever imagine. I love to help people realize their ‘soul zone’ and live from this place. Seeing you be more you than you have ever had the chance to be is my drug. The thing that stands in the way of that greatest potential above all things? YOU. Here’s the good news: Most of it isn’t even your fault. It is conditioning and thoughts and beliefs and paradigms handed down from others that are operating on a subconscious level like tiny gremlins at the wheel dictating everything you do. It is a strong force, your subconscious, but you can beat it. You can upgrade your internal operating system to play full out and be, do and have, everything you can imagine. If you couldn’t do it, you couldn’t dream it.
To help us all get the most from this life, I am offering a free 3 part training. I would like to invite you all to join the conversation, get support, and make your goals stick this year. If you didn’t even set any…its not too late. Let’s take a different approach….together.
Click here to Register…its free. Why wait for your best life? If not have it now…when?